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About Bridget Perrier -- Fulfilling a Promise to Her Dying Son:


Bridget's story starts when she was still a child. Here is her story in Bridget's own words:

To truly understand grief is to accept it. Bridget Perrier is the definition of acceptance.

Bridget Perrier was born to a First Nations woman who lovingly placed Bridget up for adoption so that she would have a better life. Bridget was raise in a large loving non native family. When Bridget was 8 years old she was sexually abused by a family friend, the pain that she felt had burdened her and by doing that she fell deep into the comforting arms that the streets had for her.

By 12 years old Bridget ended up been lured and debased into prostitution.

At the age of 16 she became pregnant, to her joy gave birth to a beautiful baby boy who she named Tanner. At 9 months Tanner was diagnosed with Leukemia a brave battle both fought for the next five years. Tanner made a death bed promise for his mom to straighten up her life and do good. Tanner’s death impacted Bridget so much that she started her healing journey and exited the sex industry completely.

Bridget embraced her culture and traditions as a strong First Nations woman. Seeking a safe place Bridget was guided to YWCA’s Stop 86 where she was given the tools to continue on her healing journey. After stop 86 Bridget began transitions into Aunduhyan Inc. second stage housing were she was supported and encouraged to become a loving mother.

Briar Rose was born in March of 1999 following the year of Tanners passing. Bridget became involved with her community often been a caregiver to those who needed help with there children. Bridget was able to secure affordable housing within the First Nations community by becoming a foster mom to a 14 year old girl who to this day calls Bridget’s place her home and refers to Bridget as her big sister.

Bridget found her way back to school after the birth of her second child Soleil. Seneca College gave her the tools that were needed to continue with her education at George Brown College and becoming a Community Worker.

Bridget was awarded YWCA”S Woman of Distinction Turning Point Award 2006. Since her award Bridget has been ask to speak about her life’s struggles and triumphs with the hope s that her storey will give hope to others who are faced with shame and survival from the streets.

Bridget’s story needs to be told without sugarcoating the pain that she endured, by telling and accepting that keeps Bridget going forward with all hopes that she will further her education by going and obtaining her Masters Degree in Social Work.

Today Bridget is a successful single mother of two wonderful girls.

 

You can find Bridget's Woman of Distinction bio here:

YWCA Toronto Woman of Distinction Award: Bridget Perrier

Also, here is the amazing interview with her 8 year old daughter Briar Rose:

 

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